On a daily basis I find myself thinking how great life is for me right now. At 45 I can say that I am where I always wanted to be. I’m happy where I’m at as a woman, a wife, a mom, a daughter, and a professional. Many people around this age start getting all mid-life crisis-y and the media doesn’t help, always obsessing over youth. I actually feel younger and more energetic now than I did in my 30s, perhaps because my kids are more independent, fun, and can hold interesting conversations. As a matter of fact, I feel like I’m having the opposite of a mid-life crisis. Is…